Feeling Good
It's a State of Mind
1. Be kind to yourself. Set aside time
to relax, meditate, read or just do something because you want to do it.
2. Give up the pressure of demanding instant
gratification. There is no technique for unwinding that fits everyone - you need to find the one that fits you.
3. If you can't get something out of your
mind, it's usually because you are afraid you will forget it. Keep a notepad with you to write down those nagging thoughts
so you can relax.
4. Make a list of the things you need or
want to do to keep from cluttering up your mind.
5. If it's a small thing that's nagging
you, do it; then relax knowing you have accomplished something.
6. Avoid artificial deadlines. Setting
goals is great, but don't let them take the pleasure out of things you enjoy doing.
7. Clean out a closet, a dresser or file
cabinet that is making you unhappy with its clutter.
8. Give away clothing that doesn't fit
and items that you can't use anymore. (OR)
9. Have a yard sale for those items listed
above. Clean out the closets, get rid of stuff you don't use, and make a little money while doing it.
10. Take time out for a relaxing bath.
11. Finally, throw a party to lift your
spirits. Planning for even a small gathering can be a positive reinforcement. After cleaning the house, getting rid of unneeeded
clothes and having a yard sale, a party a day or two later is a great way to celebrate all you've done. Spend the afternoon
or evening with friends; and relax!